Choosing the right date for my wedding day

Yes, I know that this is one of the most important steps that you need to considered on. Picking a date to get married can never be easy. It must be a date that allows all of our friends and family members make themselves available on that day to celebrate our special day.

Some of you may prefer to choose a date that is meaningful to you and your loved ones such as the first day you guys met, or maybe choosing a different day, so that your special day will be special and remarkable. Anyway, its all your choice.
Anyway, here's some tips on how me and my hubby decide our special wedding date (12th July 2009)... :)

1) List out dates that are meaningful to us (me and my hubby), such as our Risik Day, the day we coupled, our engagement day and so on... :)
2) Next, we narrowed down by eliminating dates that falls on week days
2) The remain dates, we convert them to hijrah date using converter @ Islam.com
3) Do some research in understanding bulan-bulan islam. Antara bulan² yang dirahmati seperti, Rejab, Syaaban, Rabiulakhir...
4) Select at least 3 best dates
5) Stick to these dates and discuss with the parents. Only make date changes if we can't book the venues we want for our reception/ceremony.

Hmm...thats all i guess... hope it helps!! :)

Marrying the man of my dreams, Razi...

Its been 1 year we've known each other..finally we decided to get married. Why? It's because we're so READY!!! :) And Alhamdullilah, Thank God, everything went smoothly and perfecto' as planned on that sunday of 12th July 2009. Im so happy and grateful to have a cool, understanding husband who loves me deeply. We're sharing same hobbies, same passion, thoughts and beliefs. Owh, How great!!! :)

Well, yeah honestly, initially we're not really sure if our parents are ready for this big decision...hehe...but we took chances. The main reason why Razi decided to talk about this on a more serious note is that he is getting busy with his job as a nuclear pharmacist. He's getting tight with his shift schedule which happened to be almost everyday even on our "Special" day (etc, birthday, anniversary, ), he was also selected by the hospital he's working to go for the nuclear training in Australia last year. Well, sometimes I did getting annoyed with his buziness even if I know its for his future career...Anyway, it was really a tough time, and we're almost giving up on this relationship until one day he decided to set a date for our wedding and prepare for it for real, just to have all of our time with each other.

He started it by telling it to his parents. The first reaction of course was like "Serius ker nie?", and then the first question was "Bila?". We havent talked about the exact date yet at that time, but we are choosing from June or October this year.

And then I told my parents about it too, same reactions and questions as well. Hehe.. Few days later, it started with parent to parent talk. It was so scary, and at the same time I cant stop thinking whether I am ready to settle down and be someones' wife. Definitely, there will be No more "manja² with my parent, and no more shouting² at my brothers. It's just about time to let go the 'babyish side of me... :P

Well, let stop talking about that and love thingy. I would like to take a chance here to say a "BIG THANK YOU" to my bosses (En Affandi, Hj Zahari abu Bakar, En Aznir, En Meer Khan) who come all over from Kuala Lumpur to Pahang just to attend my wedding. That was a BIG suprised, guys!!! Thanks to my MEPS collegues, Fizal, Wan, DYNAFRONT collegues, waverly, kar loon, abner, rayner, zairy, sereen & Yen Fai, KKChong & wife, also to my close friends, masfirah, ninie, elly, saiful azmi, wan nadia, sharlyn, linda and my bFF, ROSMANJA, FAHERYNA, NORZARINA!!! (teringat time kite berinai ramai-ramai malam tu...rugi tak amik gambar kan... **sob sob**)



Also, I would like to say thank you so much for all of your thoughtful wedding presents. Appreciate it alot!!.. Best gila bukak hadiah yang banyak giler ok... :)paling banyak dalam sejarah hidupku... hehe... Thank you, thank you, thank you so much...............

Love,

Dina Wahid

My Life Would Suck Without You

By Kelly Clarkson.



Guess this means you're sorry
You're standing at my door
Guess this means you take back
All you said before
Like how much you wanted
Anyone but me
Said you'd never come back
But here you are again

'Cause we belong together now, yeah
Forever united here somehow, yeah
You got a piece of me
And honestly,
My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you

Maybe I was stupid for telling you goodbye
Maybe I was wrong for tryin' to pick a fight
I know that I've got issues
But you're pretty messed up too
Either way, I found out I'm nothing without you

'Cause we belong together now, yeah
Forever united here somehow, yeah
You got a piece of me
And honestly,
My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you

Being with you
Is so dysfunctional
I really shouldn't miss you
But I can’t let you go
Oh yeah

'Cause we belong together now, yeah
Forever united here somehow, yeah
You got a piece of me
And honestly,
My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you

'Cause we belong together now, yeah
Forever united here somehow, yeah
You got a piece of me
And honestly,
My life (my life) would suck (would suck) without you

feel like kicking someone?

Let's play Futsal... hehe..





Who won, who lost, who cares... :p

What To Do When You Feel Stress or Tired?

Start POSING!!!! ...hehe...
Me and Dilla just got back from work and we started taking pics....



Actually, byk lagi pics...tp malu laa plak nak tunjuk... so guys... keep smiling for the camera... :p

Quarrel to a better life,not to the worse.

Have you guys always quarrel with ur loved ones? I find that most couples who say they are in love, quarrel frequently. Well, to me sometimes quarreling is a ways to ask for attention, or to share some emotion.
Quarreling or BIG fight cannot be avoided in relationship, and all we want is to MAKE this relationship stronger everytime we had a fight with our loved ones. If life were to be so smooth for us, we wouldn’t have grown and learn to truly appreciate it. The same goes for love. If a relationship is ever so sweet and smooth, we wouldn’t have learn to really appreciate and cherish the love.
Quareling is actually means that the both have developed another step further in your relationship. It is only when one is closer to you that a quarrel will then actually happen. I don’t suppose you will pick up a quarrel with your partner whom you just started dating? You be just trying all out to please him or her instead, wouldn’t you?
But do however treat each and every quarrel SERIOUSLY, especially when the both of you have just started. This is the time for you and your partner to further understand each other more deeply, the time for you to reflect on yourself and honestly think about the relationship. This is the time for the relationship to be tested. A test of your love for one another, whether this relationship is strong enough to withstand any thunderstorm there may be or....
I believed nobody wanted any quarrel. If you are at fault, please don’t be too ego, you jolly well apologize and seek for your partner’s forgiveness.
Remember, love is a two-way communication. It takes two happy persons, a happy you and your love to complete the equation.
To my darling Razi, Im sorry for yesterday's incident! Love u as always....

Oh well, this is part of my KPIs

Another activity organized by KKMEPS. Watch a movie together with my fellow colleagues. So last weekend, I have spent with them watching 'Race to Witch Mountain' starring Dwayne Johnson (The Rock). It was a fun movie to watch. I went with Ira to Cineleisure, Damansara. We reached there about 10am. There's a lot of MEPS members queueing at the counter to register. Some of them bring along their family members. The movie started at 10.30 am. In the cinema hall, Risal already booked a perfect place for us. The last row of course. :)



At the beginning, I tot of just skip this activity, but since we're told that it will contribute a small percentage of our KPIs, I joined. Some more the tickets and food are all sponsored. ;-p
After the movie, we went to mamak restaurant for lunch.

Later that nite, I lepak at Razi's house and when dinner time, me and his family went to Kajang to eat Satay....